Condoms

What is it?

The male condom is a latex sheath created to be unroll on the men penis to prevent secretions (such as sperm) to penetrate in the vagina.

Did you know that a condom…?

  • Is the only effective protection against STIs, including HIV.
  • Prevents pregnancy in 98% of cases if it is used for all sexual relations and before any sexual contact with the genitals
  • Is available over the counter at a cost of about 0,50$ (depending on the brand).
  • Can be handed out free of charge by the following organizations: CLSL, birth control clinics, school health services, youth centres…
  • Shows respect for the health of others and yourself. Using a condom shows respect for others, not distrust.
  • Makes the pleasure last longer and leaves no trace of semen…
  • Is not a matter of cleanliness but protection.It costs less than a beer… on the other hand, an STI costs a lot more!

 Latex of course, but what if an allergy develops… 

There are three types of condoms on the market that might interest you…
 

1. Polyurethane condoms (Avanti, Trojan-Supra)

  • stronger than latex
  • transmits sensations better
  • compatible with oil-based lubricants
  • protects against STIs including HIV
  • costs approximately $16/5 condoms

2. Polyisoprene condoms (SKYN)

  • brand new on the market
  • natural color (like skin)
  • Thin, flexible and strong
  • Protects against STIs including HIV
  • Costs approximately $1/condom

3. Natural membrane condoms (Trojan Kling-Tite)

  • available in one size only
  • thin, lubricated and fragrant
  • transmit body heat better, therefore, increase sensations
  • Protection against STIs is unproven, but it’s better than nothing

A condom is like a pair of jeans;

you must find the one that fits you better the good news is that there are plenty of types on the market. You will find lubricated, ribbed. Tasting and curved in pharmacy. There are also different condoms adapted for different penis size.

What if the secret was the planning?

  • Planning a little before sex can be exciting
  • You clearly announce your intention to use a condom
  • Keep a condom handy
  • Integrate it into the foreplay

How to use?

  1. Open the bag cautiously
  2. Verify the direction of the unrolling.
  3. Take the air out by pressing the end of the condom.
  4. Pinch the end of the condom and unroll it to the penis base.
  5. Enjoy the moment.
  6. Withdraw the penis after ejaculation and hold the condom at the base of the penis
  7. Take off the condom.
  8. Throw out the condom in the garbage.

To become a condom pro:

  • Store them in a location away from heat and light
  • Unroll the condom about a centimetre and then pinch the tip with your fingers to remove any hair
  • Find the type you prefer
  • In needs, use a water based lubricant (K-Y)

Remember!

A safe condom should have a lot number and an expiry date. It can be purchased in a pharmacy, a distributor, a sex shop, a big boxe store or a convenience store. The most expensive condoms don’t necessarily offer better protection.

The few drops of clear liquid that moisten and lubricate the tip of the penis while erect may contain sperm or germs capable of transmitting an STI.

Condom breakage is usually due to misuse or prolonged use, the addition of a harmful lubricant, inadequate storage or to the fact that it is past the expiry date. Breakage happens more commonly during anal intercourse. Condoms also break while the package is being opened and while they are being put on or removed. It is important to throw the condom out if it has an unpleasant odour, if its texture is greasy or if the chemicals have crystallized.

If something goes wrong

You can consult a doctor to receive emergency contraception (the morning after pill) or the pos-coital IUD.

You can also have testing done for AIDS and other STIs in the coming weeks.

It’s embarrassing to talk about it!

When we make love, it’s important to respect the other person while respecting ourselves; express your desires, your needs, and refuse to do what you don’t like.
There is a good chance that your partner wants to use a condom but doesn’t dare take the first steps to suggest it. The first person who talks about condoms relieves the other person from having to do it…
Using a condom is not a solitary activity but rather a team effort that requires the cooperation of both partners. You can refuse penetration or oral sex if your partner doesn’t want to wear a condom. Assert yourself, take the time to talk with your partner and understand their fears before having sex.

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Last update : July 2014